Today I want to talk about one of the mindset hacks I’ve used countless times to get everything I want.
I call it the “YES Method” and it’s actually a very simple concept. One that’s easy to understand but not as easy to implement in your life.
Here it is:
Y E S = You Expect Success
There is no other option. There is no other outcome. There is no safety net. There is no plan B.
Here’s what I’ve experienced.. MOST people want things but don’t actually expect to get them. Or they’re not actually willing or ready to embody that person who gets it.
I want a million dollars.
First thought: – “…but there’s no way I’m actually going to get it, it’s impossible!”
Continued action: Not showing up fully, not making offers, giving discounts and lowering your fees
I want an amazing relationship with my soul mate
First thought: “Yeah right, there’s no good men left out there.”
Continued action: Reject potential suitors, sabotage relationships that start off good, and talk badly about men
I want a business that feels good.
First thought: “It’s not possible though, I need to hustle and do things I don’t want to do if I want to “make it”
Continued action: keep doing things that suck the life out of you and saying yes to less than ideal clients
Can you see how sometimes what you say you want, is actually very different than what you are commanding through your thoughts and actions.
When you apply the YES Method to everything you want- whether it’s money, freedom, a relationship or weight loss, you are commanding and EXPECTing what you want and stepping into the person who already has it.
The YES Method is something I go into more detail on in Wealth From Within. I also dive into the Fast Formula (look out for this tomorrow) and the Feel Good Framework (which you can download right here).
Imagine how different your life would be if you got into the habit of acting like the woman you desire to be right NOW.
Doing business like, operating like, making choices like, and living like that woman you want to be.
Most people want to wait until certain things happen or circumstances to change in order to operate that way, and THAT my dear, is the big mistake.
It’s time to say yes to your future self – to the next level YOU.